Oxytocin is often called the “bonding hormone” or “love hormone” because of its role in connection, touch, trust and relaxation. It’s naturally released in the brain during close contact, affection, orgasm, breastfeeding and other bonding experiences.

Oxytocin can be used to help support:

• Emotional intimacy and connection
• Sexual satisfaction and arousal
• A calmer, more parasympathetic (“rest and digest”) nervous system state

By acting on oxytocin receptors in the brain and body, this peptide can help shift the system out of hypervigilance or stress mode and into a state that’s more open to connection, pleasure and safety. This can be particularly helpful for people who feel “switched on” or anxious and find it hard to relax into intimacy, Want extra support for libido, arousal or orgasm, as part of a holistic sexual-wellbeing plan, Are working with their clinician on nervous-system regulation, attachment or relationship health

This product is available as both a nasal spray for rapid central effects and a troche (dissolving in the cheek) for a slower onset and longer curve. 

Oxytocin in this context is a prescription-only medicine and is not approved as a stand-alone “sex drug” or treatment for relationship problems. It should only be used under the guidance of a qualified healthcare practitioner.

When used as directed and as part of a broader wellbeing plan, clients commonly use oxytocin to help support:

Emotional connection & bonding

Helping create a greater sense of closeness, warmth and ease with partners.

Sexual arousal & satisfaction

Supporting arousal, lubrication, orgasm and post-intimacy “afterglow” when stress has been a barrier.

Reduced anxiety around intimacy

Helping the nervous system shift towards safety, relaxation and receptivity instead of fight-or-flight.

Mood & social comfort

Some people feel more at ease in social interactions and less emotionally “guarded” when oxytocin is part of their program.

Nervous-system calming before sleep (troche option)

Used in some cases at night to support winding down and bedtime intimacy rituals.

*Individual results will vary. Oxytocin is not a cure for relationship difficulties, trauma, mental health conditions or hormonal disorders; it works best within a comprehensive treatment and support plan.

Active Ingredient

Oxytocin peptide

Oxytocin Nasal Spray

Strength: 20 IU/mL

Presentation: 5 mL nasal spray bottle

Total oxytocin per bottle: 100 IU (20 IU/mL × 5 mL)

Oxytocin Troche

Strength: 40 IU per troche

Presentation: 30 troches per pack

Total oxytocin per pack: 1,200 IU (40 IU × 30)

Protocol & Standard Dosing

Oxytocin Nasal Spray – Standard Dose

1 spray per nostril (total 2 sprays per dose)

Timing

1–2 hours before sex, or

Once daily as directed by your practitioner

Maximum 2 sprays in 24 hours

(That is, 1 spray per nostril once per day, or a single pre-intimacy use)

How to Use (Nasal Spray)

• Gently blow your nose if needed.
• Shake the bottle if directed.
• Insert the nozzle into one nostril, aim slightly outwards and back, and spray once.
• Repeat in the other nostril.
• Avoid sniffing too forcefully; allow the spray to coat the nasal passages.

Oxytocin Troche – Standard Dose

1 troche buccal

Timing

Before bed or

1–2 hours before sex (depending on your practitioner’s guidance and desired effect)

Application

• Place the troche in the cheek (buccal area) and allow it to dissolve slowly.
• Do not chew or swallow whole.
• Avoid eating or drinking until fully dissolved for best absorption.
• Maximum Dose
• Maximum 1 troche in 24 hours
• Label-style Instructions
• Take exactly as prescribed by your healthcare practitioner.

Do not exceed 2 sprays (nasal) or 1 troche in any 24-hour period.

Side Effects, Reactions & Medical Contraindications

Use is generally not recommended in:

• Known allergy or hypersensitivity to oxytocin or any ingredient in the nasal spray or troche base
• Pregnancy (oxytocin is a labour-inducing hormone in higher doses) unless under obstetric care for a pregnancy-related indication
• Breastfeeding unless specifically advised by a clinician, due to potential effects on let-down and bonding
• Individuals with a history of oestrogen-sensitive cancers or other hormone-sensitive conditions, unless cleared by a relevant specialist
• Uncontrolled significant cardiovascular disease, severe hypertension or history of serious cardiac events without specialist supervision
• People with significant psychiatric disorders or high emotional vulnerability without appropriate mental-health support, as shifts in bonding and attachment signalling can be potent
• Always tell your practitioner about your full medical and mental-health history before starting oxytocin.

Common Side Effects and Adverse Reactions – Often mild and transient where they occur:

Nasal Spray

• Nasal irritation: burning, tingling, dryness, sneezing or mild congestion
• Headache or light-headedness
• Flushing or a feeling of warmth
• Mild nausea in some individuals

Troche

• Mild mouth or throat irritation at the site of dissolution
• Headache, light-headedness or a “floaty” feeling
• Nausea or mild stomach discomfort
• Emotional sensitivity (feeling tearful or extra connected) as bonding pathways are activated
• If these symptoms are persistent, uncomfortable or worrying, contact your healthcare provider to review dose, timing or whether to continue.

Reactions Requiring Medical Attention – Stop using oxytocin and contact a healthcare provider (or emergency services if severe) if experiencing:

Signs of a serious allergic reaction:

• Widespread rash or hives
• Swelling of face, lips or tongue
• Difficulty breathing or swallowing

Severe or concerning symptoms such as:

• Chest pain, marked shortness of breath or sudden palpitations
• Severe, persistent headache or visual disturbances
• Intense mood changes, suicidal thoughts or emotional instability that feels unsafe
• Any new or worsening symptom that feels serious, unusual or concerning

Safety Note

• Oxytocin can meaningfully affect emotional state, bonding, trust and attachment. For this reason:
• It should only be used under the guidance of a qualified clinician who understands your relationship context, mental health and goals.
• It is not a substitute for therapy, trauma work, communication skills or relationship counselling when those are needed.
• It is best used within an ethical, consensual, emotionally safe relational context.
• Informed consent is essential, including understanding the potential impact on emotions, bonding and decision-making.

Safety Note: Long‑term data is limited. Use should always be monitored by a qualified clinician, with regular reviews and ongoing medical supervision.  Informed consent is essential.